Posts tagged Flirtatious

17, brown hair, blue eyes, average height and weight. I’m not posting a pic (I like my privacy), but I look sort of like a less attractive version of this (well, at least that’s how I try to keep my hair):

http://www.marieclaire.com/cm/marieclaire/images/Yy/rb-long-hair-1-0809-lgn.jpg

I’m really quiet and shy and I’m only close with a couple of people. I really want to feel like people care about me, but I don’t show a lot of emotion (even though my mood changes with the moon). Maybe it’s because I don’t relate to them, like I don’t like being hugged by people I’m not close with. I get good marks in school (my lowest mark is 81% in Physics); I’m not trying to sound like I’m a genius or anything, I just pay attention and study. I’d like to think I’m a nice person and I always do my best to be kind to everybody, I mean why be mean to people? I don’t like it when people are mean to me, so why would I be like that to them?

I dress really conservatively. I don’t want to be labeled anything, so I usually just wear a regular shirt and jeans (no brand names). But sometimes I like to dress up for no real reason. Every now and then I wear something like a red sweater, black skirt, nude hose and black heels; or a black long sleeved sweater dress that goes to just above my knees, with nude hose and black heels. Yes, I wear hose with my dresses/skirts, I don’t like to go bare legged in public very often. But they’re not super sheer, shiny hose; they’re semi sheer, kind of thick, and usually have reinforced toes, like these – http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/0/0b/Pile_of_pantyhose.jpg
And I don’t wear panties below; just too bulky.
I prefer heels to flats; I find they look nicer with skirts/dresses.
I wear pretty unusual things sometimes; for example, if I’m wearing a skirt (dress)/heels combo on a freezing cold day (eg. -35), I sometimes wear a bodystocking, which is basically pantyhose that covers your body: http://www.xyfww.com/11WZ/773B.JPG
Since I rarely wear open toe shoes, in warm weather I wear sandals like these: http://www.shoe-shop.com/content/ebiz/shoeshop/invt/sch170908/sch170908_Black_l.jpg

There have been guys who’ve liked me despite the fact that I’m not particularly flirtatious. I’ve had guys staring at me, guys who constantly tried to talk to me (I always reply as politely as possible). I’ve had a boy who blushed when I went near him (he was sweet, but came on very strongly), and I’ve also had guys at tables looking at me and saying “yo, look at the rack on her.” I really hate it when guys do that (it’s happened at least five times), and I don’t want to date someone who just sees me for my boobs. I’ve been asked out a lot (not that I’m super attractive or anything), but I’ve never dated because I wasn’t sure if I was ready. Now it’s just that I’m not interested in anybody at the moment.

Would you want to date somebody with my personality?